Thank-you. My family thought of me as a freak and called me harmful names etc. Thankyou for allowing me to feel normal. My coffee is often cold by the time I get round to seeing if its still hot.
Today I had 2 King Parrots take shelter from the rain, under my verandah roof. It was the most exhilarating and loving experience. I felt honoured that they didn't get startled by my presence. : )
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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Thank you for sharing your knowledge. Although I’ve known that I’m an introvert for many years, I’ve never made the connection about unexpected loud noises; they make me almost jump out of my skin. And I love sitting on my patio, just communing with nature and watching the butterflies and birds. It’s my sanctuary.
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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I felt a similar sense of peaceful bliss when I was in holiday in Egypt. Just watching the sunset over the Nile. I felt part of everything. No beginning or end Sometime later came across the phrase 'the sensation of eternity' and that's exactly how I felt just sitting on that balcony.
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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Thanks for the ‘back-up’. These were my thoughts when I got up this morning, ‘how about just doing nothing’. Guess what, I’m still feeling a little bit guilty though..!?! Probably needs getting used to. Thanks for the article.
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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This totally resonated with me, especially the part about sitting on your bed with a cup of coffee and just listening to sounds and letting time pass by. I also feel that is ecstasy. Thank you for sharing!
I love this, and I wish I could send this to everyone I know who can't seem to comprehend how an introvert feels just living life. I love those quiet moments of time spent in idleness and letting the world just flit by outside my window. I can't explain it, but this really helps. Thanks for putting this in to words.
You have so eloquently put my very thoughts into words! Thank you dear❤️ you are one of the special gifts from our great Lord given to me at this moment in time that I needed so badly❤️✝️
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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Loved this post. I cracked up at the beginning when you said introverts think 2 people is a crowd. Hahaha, it is so true. As a fellow HSPer and introvert, your post was spot-on. Those quiet, nothing moments ARE therapy for us.
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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It definitely is! What a great article! I’m a 41-year-old introvert, and I only accepted I was an introvert about two years ago. Now, making time for spaces like this is a key part of my schedule to live a more balanced life.
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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I do agree 100% with your doing nothing “therapy”, It works very well at least for the right people.
I love just sit down watching the sea or anything related to nature, gives me peace and energy. I love it but very few people can appreciate that, I guess…
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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This was so accurately put into words. It's a hard concept to explain to someone who does not recognize needing it or hasn't experienced this kind of stillness. Thanks ❤️
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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Thank-you. My family thought of me as a freak and called me harmful names etc. Thankyou for allowing me to feel normal. My coffee is often cold by the time I get round to seeing if its still hot.
Today I had 2 King Parrots take shelter from the rain, under my verandah roof. It was the most exhilarating and loving experience. I felt honoured that they didn't get startled by my presence. : )
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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https://wisdombeats.substack.com/p/should-narcissistic-grandparents
Thank you for sharing your knowledge. Although I’ve known that I’m an introvert for many years, I’ve never made the connection about unexpected loud noises; they make me almost jump out of my skin. And I love sitting on my patio, just communing with nature and watching the butterflies and birds. It’s my sanctuary.
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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https://wisdombeats.substack.com/p/should-narcissistic-grandparents
I felt a similar sense of peaceful bliss when I was in holiday in Egypt. Just watching the sunset over the Nile. I felt part of everything. No beginning or end Sometime later came across the phrase 'the sensation of eternity' and that's exactly how I felt just sitting on that balcony.
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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https://wisdombeats.substack.com/p/should-narcissistic-grandparents
It’s a perfect article. Very true to its core.
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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https://wisdombeats.substack.com/p/should-narcissistic-grandparents
Thank you for writing this letter. Letters which I couldn't post. You posted. I believe it's high time I post too.
I can sit with myself all alone. It is like a home to me.
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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https://wisdombeats.substack.com/p/should-narcissistic-grandparents
Thanks for the ‘back-up’. These were my thoughts when I got up this morning, ‘how about just doing nothing’. Guess what, I’m still feeling a little bit guilty though..!?! Probably needs getting used to. Thanks for the article.
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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https://wisdombeats.substack.com/p/should-narcissistic-grandparents
This totally resonated with me, especially the part about sitting on your bed with a cup of coffee and just listening to sounds and letting time pass by. I also feel that is ecstasy. Thank you for sharing!
I love this, and I wish I could send this to everyone I know who can't seem to comprehend how an introvert feels just living life. I love those quiet moments of time spent in idleness and letting the world just flit by outside my window. I can't explain it, but this really helps. Thanks for putting this in to words.
You have so eloquently put my very thoughts into words! Thank you dear❤️ you are one of the special gifts from our great Lord given to me at this moment in time that I needed so badly❤️✝️
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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https://wisdombeats.substack.com/p/should-narcissistic-grandparents
Loved this post. I cracked up at the beginning when you said introverts think 2 people is a crowd. Hahaha, it is so true. As a fellow HSPer and introvert, your post was spot-on. Those quiet, nothing moments ARE therapy for us.
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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https://wisdombeats.substack.com/p/should-narcissistic-grandparents
It definitely is! What a great article! I’m a 41-year-old introvert, and I only accepted I was an introvert about two years ago. Now, making time for spaces like this is a key part of my schedule to live a more balanced life.
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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https://wisdombeats.substack.com/p/should-narcissistic-grandparents
This was the post I didn't know I needed this morning. Thank you.
Absolutely OUTSTANDING 👍❤️❤️
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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https://wisdombeats.substack.com/p/should-narcissistic-grandparents
I do agree 100% with your doing nothing “therapy”, It works very well at least for the right people.
I love just sit down watching the sea or anything related to nature, gives me peace and energy. I love it but very few people can appreciate that, I guess…
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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https://wisdombeats.substack.com/p/should-narcissistic-grandparents
This was so accurately put into words. It's a hard concept to explain to someone who does not recognize needing it or hasn't experienced this kind of stillness. Thanks ❤️
Thank you for your continued articles about introverts. They are so validating.
Should Narcissistic Grandparents Be Kept Away From Kids?
5 false myths, and 12 serious concerns.
One of the most confusing and difficult issues many adult children of narcissistic parents face is how to navigate the relationship between our children and our parents.
Even after identifying the dysfunction in our parents and acknowledging the neglect and abuse we grew up with, we may make misguided assumptions about our parents as grandparents that can have serious consequences for ourselves and our children.
5 False Assumptions About Narcissistic Grandparents
1. My parents will be better with my child(ren) than they were with me. The idea that our narcissistic parents will care about our kids more or treat them better than they did us is a form of wishful thinking that reflects underlying self-blame for our parents’ deficiencies. It is common for adult children to continue to carry the belief, consciously or unconsciously, that we are inherently unlovable and at fault for the ways our parents harmed us. We may think that our kids will elicit the love from our parents that we could not. Every child is lovable and deserving of nurturance and protection. People who are narcissistic do not care about....
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