I’m 64 and have spent a lot of my life in shame and burnout bc I was “defective” and “anti-social.” I burnt myself out trying to be something I wasn’t. I’m so glad that there is so much more information around introversion. I’m now at peace with who I am and I’m happy you learned these lessons at a much younger age! I saw a meme that said “You’re so quiet!” “Thanks! I wish you were too!” My new motto!
Thank you for this Karun. I do so loathe big family multi-generational gatherings for all the reasons you say, though my step-family just don't understand this. Last Christmas was particularly grim, from my point of view!
i cant stand ANY family reunions to be honest! i don't relate to my family very well and I would rather be in my bedroom tbh. unfortunately the only person who makes them bearable is going to pass away soon, so I suppose just be praying for me :3
Brilliant suggestions Karun, thanks. I especially appreciate the reminder not to feel guilty for being a highly sensitive introvert. It's a lifetime of work to let go of the need for approval and permission so conversations like these help nudge us forward.
Like a couple of others here, at 67 I am finally understanding that being just me is ok and it's ok to not fit in the world. Slowly building a life that I love! Your writings are affirming, thank you.
This was so soothing to read. I needed these reminders. I also really loved how you talked about the need to remember that they will also be able to rationalize your no, just like you do for others. I think framing it that way will help me a lot in the future.
Points 4 and 5 are the big lessons I learned the last few months full of networking events and meeting new people: I learned to listen to my body and my energy levels.
I could go to all the possible networking events that fit into my time, but after days 2 or 3, I wouldn't have any energy left to talk with people in a useful way.
Now I know my limit for weekly events (and take whole weeks off, too), and plan with that in mind. Life and business are a long-term game.
Every word of this is is like a warm bath on a cold day to an introvert, love it, thank you ❤️
I’m 64 and have spent a lot of my life in shame and burnout bc I was “defective” and “anti-social.” I burnt myself out trying to be something I wasn’t. I’m so glad that there is so much more information around introversion. I’m now at peace with who I am and I’m happy you learned these lessons at a much younger age! I saw a meme that said “You’re so quiet!” “Thanks! I wish you were too!” My new motto!
This is life affirming. It's taken me 70 years to feel comfortable in my own skin. There is nothing wrong with me.
Thank you for this Karun. I do so loathe big family multi-generational gatherings for all the reasons you say, though my step-family just don't understand this. Last Christmas was particularly grim, from my point of view!
i cant stand ANY family reunions to be honest! i don't relate to my family very well and I would rather be in my bedroom tbh. unfortunately the only person who makes them bearable is going to pass away soon, so I suppose just be praying for me :3
I feel like I could have written this. Thanks so very much.
Beautifully written…from an introvert that wakes up at 2am.
Nice, you touched upon many aspects of my outlook and feelings. The instantaneous piercing of my psyche upon hearing a simple no stands out
this is beautiful, thank you so much
"Protect your energy like it's sacred". That resonated with me. Yes, because your energy is sacred. 👏😉❤️
Brilliant suggestions Karun, thanks. I especially appreciate the reminder not to feel guilty for being a highly sensitive introvert. It's a lifetime of work to let go of the need for approval and permission so conversations like these help nudge us forward.
Thank you so much Sir☺️
Like a couple of others here, at 67 I am finally understanding that being just me is ok and it's ok to not fit in the world. Slowly building a life that I love! Your writings are affirming, thank you.
This was so soothing to read. I needed these reminders. I also really loved how you talked about the need to remember that they will also be able to rationalize your no, just like you do for others. I think framing it that way will help me a lot in the future.
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It's like you know me! 😉 Lovely letter, thank you for this.
Points 4 and 5 are the big lessons I learned the last few months full of networking events and meeting new people: I learned to listen to my body and my energy levels.
I could go to all the possible networking events that fit into my time, but after days 2 or 3, I wouldn't have any energy left to talk with people in a useful way.
Now I know my limit for weekly events (and take whole weeks off, too), and plan with that in mind. Life and business are a long-term game.